Single Today

Conquer Yesterday’s Regrets, Ditch Tomorrow’s Worries, and Thrive Right Where You Are

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Everyone is single at some point.

The young woman who has never been asked on a date.
The middle-aged man who gets blindsided by divorce.
The widow waking up in her bed by herself for the first time in decades.

Some hate it; others love it.
Some expect it; others get caught off guard by it.
Singleness is an old friend to some and an unexpected guest to others.

No matter what your story is, we all have something in common. You, me, and every other single person in the world understands that singleness is a struggle. We try to dress it up like it’s not, but it is.

But you are not alone. There are billions of us. Billions of single people with billions of questions about billions of challenges.

This book is an empowering guide to the gift of singleness that will help you leave shame in the past and let go of anxiety about the future in order to thrive today—from a thirtysomething single pastor who understands that the struggle is real.

“Wekenman clearly and brilliantly helps his readers learn to appreciate their single stage of life—not to reluctantly embrace it but to thrive in it and even be thankful for it! Singleness doesn’t need to be a valley in life you must endure until you find that other person, but instead it can be a nonstop collection of mountaintop moments, inspired by God for your life, that you can be absolutely grateful for!”

SHAWN JOHNSON
Senior pastor of Red Rocks Church and author of Attacking Anxiety
“This book is packed with immediately practical real talk about contentment, purpose, and living presently through singleness, regardless of the reason or the season. Single Today is raw, relatable, and encouraging. It’s the real deal.”

GRANGER SMITH
Speaker and New York Times bestselling author of Like a River
“I’ve been a mentor for single women for more than a decade, and I wish I had this practical resource to share with them sooner! It’s funny, warm, and encouraging, and it reads like you’re having coffee with a good friend who also happens to be one of the wisest people you know. Single Today will change the way you see your past and your future, your singleness and yourself.”

STEPHANIE MAY WILSON
Author of Create a Life You Love
“Single Today offers a vision for a fully satisfied life sans the need to be tethered relationally in marriage. It is the book every single person needs to read and every married person needs to read to better equip their single friends and family members to live the full lives God calls them to.”

WAYNE FRANCIS
Lead pastor of The Life Church, New York; co-author of God and Race; and chaplain for the Brooklyn Nets
“Such a helpful guide for anyone struggling with contentment right now. I loved Wekenman’s insight and stories that anyone can relate to, whether single, dating, engaged, or married.”

RUTH SOUKUP
New York Times bestselling author of Living Well, Spending Less and Do It Scared
“Wekenman’s authenticity in Single Today will be a refreshing reminder of God’s purpose for you in this season. The stereotypical eye-roll moments of singlehood are replaced with engaging stories of wrestling, hope, and wondering what more God has. Wekenman gives practical steps toward significant mindset shifts that lead to a deep satisfaction in being single today.”

JONATHAN POKLUDA
Lead pastor, bestselling author, and host of Becoming Something podcast
“Wekenman’s vulnerability and openness exemplify that this was a book and a message that he had to write—not because he wanted to but out of a deep desire for himself and others to feel less alone in their unique callings in life. Single Today will be an encouragement to many who need to know that they are unique, gifted, valued, and loved.”

BEN HIGGINS
Co-founder and president of Generous International and author of Alone in Plain Sight
“Wekenman shares from a deep place of knowing and understanding the experience and challenges faced by singles, whether they are feeling stuck, struggling with being single again, or loving it. Brilliantly written, this timely, inspiring, and biblically based work is full of practical application that will move readers to a place of true contentment in the season they are in.”

JIMMY AND IRENE ROLLINS
Founders of TWO=ONE marriage ministry

Single Today will encourage you to:

Gain practical tools to help handle the annoying and uncomfortable situations single people get placed in
Learn how to talk to family and friends about your singleness with confidence
Practice opening your heart and embracing true intimacy
Stop believing your marital status is keeping you stuck
Start living the full and abundant life available today

No amount of shame will change the past, and no amount of worry will fix the future, but with a little faith and work, you can thrive while being single today.